Welcome to Italy!?

So, we booked a hotel in Alassio, Italy but we realised as after booking it on www.booking.com that it might not have an extra bed. So we phoned the hotel immediately after booking and the hotel confirmed that we could not book an extra bed through booking.com but if we cancelled the booking they could book an extra bed...we cancelled and decided to book another hotel. I then after a couple of days noticed that one electrical bill had bounced due to lack of funds/money on my account. The hotel we cancelled right after we had booked it had taken 1744 SEK from my account. Reserved them so I could not use them. They paid back after 10 days. Then we checked another website www.venere.com an Italian site and we found a hotel with three beds. We booked it and got a confirmation. Then 20 days later they send us an email saying that there has been a technical problem and that the confirmation we had received was not valid. It looks like it is our fate not to travel to Italy...